Trust me…

Together these are two of the most powerful words in the English language. The reason that they’re so powerful is because this phrase is a ‘request’ for power. The speaker is asking the listener to give up their power and put their faith in the one talking. This is NEVER easy to do because we all have our perceptions, concepts and ways of doing things. To give up this power is deep, even if only for a moment…

The problem that we face is that, all too often, we’ve been hurt or our trust has been hampered with. Our barriers of trust are always on full alert. We don’t want to let anyone in because we “can’t take another blow”. Sometimes our pride comes in and we feel like they don’t know what they’re talking about, they can’t do the job as well as me or they don’t understand my point of view.

As great leaders, we must first be great followers. There should never come a time when we aren’t following someone and I’m not just talking about being lead by God. No, we should always be connected. Always growing, always learning, always depositing… You see, we were designed to receive AND give. When we deny one of these two principles then we create dysfunction.

I’ve been a leader in more than a few different businesses. The ones that are the most successful are those that allow people to function in their roles. Why have a staff if YOU are going to do all of the work? At times, I am guilty and fall prey to this method of dysfunction. But, I’ve also told my people to pull me back in when I ‘step on their toes’. People can’t maximize their potential if we teach them how to do something and then WE do it.

There has to come a time when we, leaders, have to step back and trust them. We’ve taught you what to do… now do it. As leaders, we are there to oversee but when we feel that need to always jump in and take over then what good is that really doing? What are we teaching them when we do that? What are they learning? When we consistently do that, the people development isms and schisms about performing their duties. They can become unstable and unsure of themselves, which can literally stunt their growth and potential.

The crazy part is that the stronger the people are the more likely they will be to find outlets to function properly. There is an innate need, or desire, to get it done. Some will persevere and wait with us to get it together, while others will do the work elsewhere. Over the years, I’ve seen some of the greatest talent mishandled by overbearing leaders who wouldn’t allow them to do what they do. And the result is that they simply went somewhere else where they had the freedom to be themselves.

As leaders, we ask the people to trust us but guess what… The people are asking us leaders to trust them.

I love you ALL!!!
Stay Blessed,
Jackie

 

Our commission…

I like to ask questions. Sometimes, my questions get me into trouble but if I want to know then I ask… My question today is, “Why do we go to church?” Wait… I can hear the church bells ringing the alarm. I hear the super saints saying that I’ve backsliding. No seriously, why do we go to church? Or better yet, why do YOU go to church?

One of the things that I have really done, especially lately, is research the origin of things. You see, I don’t want to just go along with the status quo. I no longer want to do things just because everyone else is doing it or has done it. I’m tired of the expectations of this or that but not really having a firm foothold on the truth.

In my research, I found out that the first church was dedicated ‘in the thirty-first year after our Lord’s Passion’ – that is AD 64. This church was built by Joseph of Arimathea, and his twelve missionaries, in Glastonbury, England. They were granted 1,440 acres by King Arvirgus of Siluria. The importance of this first church is that it was the first “above-ground” church that preached about Jesus. Before this building was set, Christian chapels were hidden underground in the Roman catacombs. Btw, this building was dedicated to St. Mary.

Did you catch that last little piece? I’m just sayin’ :-)

When Jesus ministered, he actually went house to house. He was the first real traveling evangelist. When he sent out the twelve disciples, he instructed them on how to enter a town or village and, where they should stay, which was in people’s houses. Matthew 10:9-15 NIV…

9 “Do not get any gold or silver or copper to take with you in your belts— 10 no bag for the journey or extra shirt or sandals or a staff, for the worker is worth his keep. 11 Whatever town or village you enter, search there for some worthy person and stay at their house until you leave. 12 As you enter the home, give it your greeting. 13 If the home is deserving, let your peace rest on it; if it is not, let your peace return to you. 14 If anyone will not welcome you or listen to your words, leave that home or town and shake the dust off your feet. 15 Truly I tell you, it will be more bearable for Sodom and Gomorrah on the day of judgment than for that town.

Many times in doing church work, we forget what the work of the church actually is. I know that line messed some of you up… Go ahead. Read it again. I’ll wait…

We get so wrapped up in the stuff that we do for church that we don’t fulfill what the church was called to do. Matthew 28:18-20 MSG answers this issue. It says, “Jesus, undeterred, went right ahead and gave his charge: “God authorized and commanded me to commission you: Go out and train everyone you meet, far and near, in this way of life, marking them by baptism in the threefold name: Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. Then instruct them in the practice of all I have commanded you. I’ll be with you as you do this, day after day after day, right up to the end of the age.” Luke 14:23 puts it this way, “And the lord said unto the servant, Go out into the highways and hedges, and compel them to come in, that my house may be filled.”

The key theme here is that we are to go out and do something.

1 Corinthians 6:19 says, “What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?” If we are the temple then why are we spending so much time at the church?

I like how its written in the Gospel of Thomas, pOxy. 654.9-21, Coptic version…

Jesus said, “If those who lead you say to you, ‘See, the kingdom is in the sky,’ then the birds of the sky will precede you. If they say to you, ‘It is in the sea,’ then the fish will precede you. Rather, the kingdom is inside of you, and it is outside of you. When you come to know yourselves, then you will become known, and you will realize that it is you who are the sons of the living father. But if you will not know yourselves, you dwell in poverty and it is you who are that poverty.”

All to often we are guilty of that last line from Thomas. We don’t know who we are and because of that one simple fact poverty consumes us. Now don’t get it twisted, poverty doesn’t just mean lack of money. This poverty is much greater than that. Let’s try lack of fulfillment, lack of love, lack of desire, lack of _______ (you fill in the blank). This is the reason that so many people get bored with church because church isn’t doing what it’s supposed to be doing and has become impoverished.

Stagnant water is stale but they say still waters run deep. The problem that we face is much greater than this letter can point out because we’ve been taught for generations that we need to be IN church. But I dare to say that we need to update our thinking and our press. The church building is for the gathering of the people to be re-energized and re-invigorated to go back OUT to fulfill the commission. We need to stop relying on the preacher to do all of the work while we sit back and chill.

It’s time to stop playing and get to work… ALL OF US (me included…) People are sick and are dying. We have the cure for them… It’s Jesus and the only way they are going to get their healing is when we compel them to take the Jesus vaccine!!!

So, again I ask, “Why do YOU going to church?”

I love you ALL!!!
Stay Blessed,
Jackie